People often defined virgin as someone who never had sex, but it’s not quite as simple as it seems. That’s because sex means different things to different people, race, ethnicity, so virginity can mean different things as well.
A lot of people think that having joystick in the vagina for the first time is how you lose your virginity. But this leaves lots of people and other types of sex out of the picture.
For example the homosexuals; haven’t had joystick-in-vagina sex, but they’ve had other kinds of sex (like MouthAction or anal sex) — and they may or may not see themselves as virgins, examples of such homosexuals are lesbian, gay, bisexual or pansexual people who may never have joystick-in-vagina sex at all. But they probably don’t see themselves as lifelong virgins just because they haven’t had joystick-in-vagina sex.
Many people believe rape and sexual assault aren’t sex, they believe it’s only sex if both partners have consent. So if an individual was forced or pressured the first time they had vaginal sex, MouthAction, or anal sex, they may not see that as “losing their virginity.”
What am trying to say is that the definition of virginity is complicated, and it’s really up to you to decide what you believe. There are different schools of thought for the definition. And we have some people who don’t even care what “virginity” means or think it matters. Stressing about whether you’re a virgin is way less important than how you feel about your sexual experiences.
Some people believe that you’re not a virgin if your hymen is stretched open. But having a hymen and being a virgin are not the same thing.
Damn!!! I forgot to define hymen, well is not too late, Well if you are curious about the meaning of hymen, The hymen is a thin, fleshy tissue that’s located at the opening of your vagina.
Some people are born with hymens that are naturally open. And many other activities besides sex can stretch your hymen for example sports, riding a bike/bicycle, putting something in your vagina (like a tampon, finger, or intimacy gadget). Once your hymen is stretched open, it can’t grow back. . So you can’t tell if someone has had sex by the way their hymen looks or feels.
The age when people tend to have sex for the first time is 17. Sometimes it may seem like everybody at your school is doing it, but that’s usually not true. Only about half of high school students have ever had vaginal sex. And most teens who have had sex don’t do it very often.
Choosing to have sex for the first time, hmmm!!! it is a big decision that’s very personal. People think about lots of different things such as religious, spiritual, and moral beliefs; family and personal values; desire; love; and/or relationships. Whatever your reason is, it’s important to wait until you’re sure you’re ready to have sex.
Lots of teenagers who’ve had sex say they wish they had waited. If you’ve already started having sex and want to stop, that’s totally okay, just because you’ve had sex before doesn’t mean you have to do it again. People can be abstinent (not have sex) at any time, for one reason or the other. And some people choose to never have sex, well that’s totally okay, too.
But the question is do guys lose their virginity and how?